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IMDB rating: 6.00 Plot: Nikolai Rochenko, a Russian ballet dancer who 8 years ago defected to the West. He is in a plane flying over Russia when all of a sudden, a malfunction forces the plane to land in Russia. The KGB tells everyone that his injuries are so severe that he has to remain confide for a while. But in reality they want him to return to them, so they bring him to his old apartment and an American, Raymond Greenwood, who himself defected to Russia several years ago, is placed there to keep an eye on him. However, Rochenko is not about to give in and is determined to escape. So with help from his former lover, he gets word to the Americans. And even Raymond is started to be disillusioned with Russia, and he has to decide if he is going to do what he was sent to do or help Rochenko. |
Actors: Baryshnikov Mikhail,Hines Gregory,Skolimowski Jerzy,Glover John,Gryff Stefan,Hootkins William,Rimmer Shane,Savile David,Liston Ian,Young Benny,Drama,
Did i mess up real bad with her?
plz i really need help!!!
10 PTS FOR FIRST SINCERE ANSWER
ok so ive been friends with this girl for about 2 yrss…. and i liked her from the very start, she has a Bf whos real uncareing and dosnt pay any attention to her or treat her like a lady or show her affection besides sex.. so they had a big argument so she finally broke up with him, she gave back her cellphone that he payed for so she was out of a phone… i was there comforting her for 2 days cause i care about her and wanted to make her feel better and all. so one night were talking on aim and her Ex Bf texts me saying how he loves her and that shes tough to deal with and stuff so i just quickly red them and told her he texted me… i forgot what they said but when she asked me i told her that he was just going to wait for her to go crawling back to him and how shes always a cry baby (he never tlks with her) i only made these little white lies to make her feel better because hes a jerk scumbagg and she deserves waaay better… so she said she culdnt live w/o a phone so she went back to get it… she checks the texts he sent me and she sees that there not exactly what i said… now she told me to leave her alone and never talk to her again (shes still single) but im going to die not being able to talk to her again because shes an amazing woman who i really would take a bullet for and i really super duper care for her… was what i did really thatt bad? and what should i do?
ps. last year she went to college so im 2 hrs away from her, this all happened over aim, texts, and phonecalls.. plz i really dnt know what to do she said she dosnt want to speak to me ever again!!! =[
Yep.
Real bad.
Cannibal Emma | Feb 05, 2010
The only thing you can do is actually take a bullet for her…she will love you forever and ever until you die….that will happen soon if you take the bullet.
<3 ROCKER <3 | Feb 05, 2010
yes you did mess up, but i wouldn’t say all is lost, just give her time and slowly try and gain her trust and friendship back. but because of the distance it will be hard, just apologize, say you just had her interest at heart but you realize it was the wrong thing to do. that kind of stuff. but dont bug her or obsess over her because she will distance herself from you if you do. just take it easy and try your best
Jett | Feb 05, 2010
just tell her your sorry and how you feel about her
~ hope this helps
Why do you have 2 have a name? | Feb 05, 2010
First you can’t build a relationship out of lies, so yes what you did was very wrong.
Second you should drive the 2 hrs down and give her flowers and apologize. Keep cracking at her armor because deep inside she might actually care about you.
Third don’t throw out that 10 point crap as if its a great reward. If you going throw out rewards pass out money or something, not that 10 point crap. We obviously know someone is going to get 10 points, thanks!
Sincerely
David Shabazz | Feb 05, 2010
even though u did…..u can get back to her by telling her the entire truth and why u did that…..but give her some time first to get over this whole thing and send her a message or something but dnt confront her suddenly shes gonna get pissed even more…..then ask her if you can properly apologize to her
Bob | Feb 05, 2010
Yeah u screwd up.
If i were you i’d try move on, and asap cos thats messed up man. And in the future stick to the truth.
Aythreuk | Feb 05, 2010
Well, even though this guy hasn’t treated her that great, she basically still loves him, and she felt like by you lying and making up stuff that he didn’t say (BTW, any lie is a lie and yours was more on the grounds of a whopper instead of a white lie) that it made him look worse in her eyes and maybe she said some things to him that she can’t take back now due to your lying. She doesn’t trust you now and besides apologizing and asking her to forgive you there is not much you can do.
blinky42 | Feb 05, 2010
Honestly, yes.
Us girls hate it when we’re being lied to, and if she wanted to get back together with this guy, then so be it. If you do really love her, then you should let her be happy. It’s her opinion whether she thinks he is uncaring.
If someone told me that my ex-boyfriend felt that way, I’d just get even madder, I wouldn’t feel better. If I was this girl, I would have liked it if you had told me the truth.
To be totally honest, it makes you sound like you’re trashing her ex-boyfriend, and true friends would be totally supportive no matter the situation.
To apologize, you should meet her face-to-face. There’s nothing more cheesy than an AIM apology.
Kate | Feb 05, 2010
Look, girls whether they be your friends or something else always want the the truth so in a way you did mess up bad, but you didn’t mean to hurt her and I can tell she means alot to you, but my guess she’s like any girl who wants the truth and for that to hurt than white lies that do not hurt. I recommend to just tell her the truth and that you messed up like an apology and if she’s a 2hr drive away and means alot to you be a man and drive those 2 hrs and apologize and well tell her 100% the truth and why you really gave her white lies
Terry | Feb 05, 2010
well you kind of did big time. you lied to her because you thought the guy she was with was, was a total jerk and you might have been jealous of him. don’t lie to the ones you love. by telling her that she probably feels like she can’t trust you anymore so she told you that.
so to fix it all up just try and talk to her somehow and tell her you lied to her because you felt a little jealous and that you just was thinking that she could find someone better.
kawaii love | Feb 05, 2010
She’s probably feeling like she can’t trust you now. Trust is very important and you lied. You need to first realize you screwed up majorly, apologize and tell her why you did it and how you feel. Choose your words very carefully so you don’t offend her and don’t make excuses for what you did.
Brittany M | Feb 05, 2010
She only told you to never speak to her again out of hurt. She feels betrayed by you and like you treated her bad. The MAIN thing in any relationship is HONESTY. If you would have been honest with her, she would still be there with you..Your next step is to give her some time..Let her get herself together…SHe’s going to hate you for a while but give things some time to die down..And when she seems like she’s doing better don’t try to talk to her at first..do something good for her like flowers…Don’t give her the flowers…send them to a place you know she’ll be(work,school,home, etc.) , the most beautiful ones you can find…Show her your sincerity…Show her you care…write a note saying you apologize and that you only did It because You care..Write her a poem, a song, or something symbolic that she’ll remember…Never say sorry say I apologize…Be concerned tell her how you feel…Let her know you would take a bullet for her..Do what you got to do man…wish you luck..any more questions let me know
WizKid | Feb 05, 2010
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