Forever Strong
March 20, 2010, 1:28 am
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 Forever Strong (2008)
IMDB rating: 6.60
Plot: A talented-but-troubled rugby player must play against the team his father coaches at the national championship.
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my period is 15 days late could i be pregnant?
hi im new here, I’ve been reading posts for what seems like forever i need help, i got my last real period on the 2nd feb and had unprotected sex 8days before my next due date 2nd march, i’m always like clock work 2days early or late every so often but i always come on without fail, well on the 28th feb i started to spot very lightly only when i went to the bathroom ( with no cramps unusual ) this lasted till the 2nd march heavy flow never started its just stopped, since then i’ve had mild cramps been very tired and hungry my breasts are sore and heavy my skins bad and hate strong smells , i’ve never missed my period unless i’ve been pregnant but i’ve taken 4 HPT and 1 docs test and all are negative the doc refused to send me for a blood test i’ve also had 5 failed pregnancies so i was shocked when she said no, i’ve had sex many times since with bf and want to have a baby so i wouldn’t mind being preggers i Just don’t get why the tests neg did i test to early ?
uhhh duh!
ender4president | Mar 17, 2010
Take a test -
Invisible Pink ~ RN | Mar 17, 2010
"my period is 15 days late could i be pregnant?"
WHAT? Has a penis been in your vagina recently? Than YES, you could be pregnant. Do people even know how babies are made?
Crystal | Mar 17, 2010
It could be stress but you are over two weeks late so more than likely you may be pregnant, wait a day or two from now and take a pregnancy test early in the morning so your urine will be pure and accurate. If the test is positive depending on what you want to do start making appointments, congratulations

Nookie | Mar 17, 2010
sex before marriage is a sin
Lori | Mar 17, 2010
well it could be but like i have a friend who missed her period for three months she wasn’t pregnant but it could be a possibility to be sure i would take a pregnancy test also u wouldn’t have to worry about being pregnant if u didn’t have sex if you did the BEST choice is to take a pregnancy test and if arnt sure take a diffrent type to make sure the answer you got is correct the tests can sometimes make a mistake anyway hope i helped
Boo Boo Bair | Mar 17, 2010
Freedomland
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 Freedomland (2006)
IMDB rating: 5.00
Plot: When her son disappears and is believed to be dead, a single mother blames an African-American man from the projects for the kidnapping, creating a racial controversy. An African-American detective (Jackson) and a white missing child researcher team up to investigate the case, which they discover may be more complicated than they expected.
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Who thinks the movie "Freedomland" was terrible & slightly disturbing?
I watched it w/ my mother. It wasn’t a freak horror movie or anything, but it was about a druggie who’s 4 year old son kills himself & she tries to cover it up by saying an African American man kidnapped him. I found it to be disturbing & I was disgusted that someone would make a movie like that.
Yes this movie was disturbing and weird. The book was a little less bizarre, but the same story line applies. They didn’t do a very good job putting it on the screen.
Typical T | Jun 12, 2007
I didn’t like the movie at all.
Mimi L | Jun 11, 2007
it was so terrible i turned it off…and it was disturbing
oreo | Jun 11, 2007
I’m with you, honestly, I think alot of movies now a days are really scary and really crap! I miss it when movies used to be romantic and make you feel happy, laugh, and cry all at the same time. There is such a big push to do murder/torture/ghost/paranormal movies…no wonder everyone in this country is a little screwed up! LOL!
But yes, it was a really disturbing movie, I wish I would have looked into it a bit more before seeing it…it wasn’t at all what I thought it would be.
claireandmouse | Jun 11, 2007
The movie just got worse and worse as it went on…..what was the point to that racist mess?
Audiophile | Jun 11, 2007
There was actually a woman in 1994 or 95 , Susan Smith, who killed her two boys by drowning them in the car. She told the police that she was car jacked by a "black man" . Later she confessed that her wealthy boyfriend did not want kids. So I think that it’s even more disturbing that stuff like this actually happens, and not just in movies.
crystal b | Jun 12, 2007
Hell’s Angels
March 19, 2010, 8:45 am
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 Hell’s Angels (1930)
IMDB rating: 7.90
Plot: Just before WWI, brothers Monte and Roy Rutledge visit Germany with Karl, their German pal at Oxford . When war breaks out Karl is called back to Germany and ends up on a Zepplin bombing London. He directs the bombs so that they fall harmlessly in water. Monte and Roy join the RAF. They’re not too happy about the war either, but they volunteer for a dangerous mission bombing a German munitions dump.
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Who do you love the most?
A child left to deal the death of uncle
Conspiracy
March 19, 2010, 7:37 am
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IMDB rating: 4.90
Plot: A seasoned senior enlisted special operations (spec ops) United States Marine is wounded during combat operations in Iraq. He is retired from the Marine Corps and visits a friend on a ranch in the south west. When he arrives he discovers his friend has disappeared and no one will even admit to knowing of him.
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THIS IS SCARY PLEASE READ. NEW WORLD ORDER?
What is every one’s opinion on the up coming new world order.
It’s sounds far fetched but the research I have done sounds pretty convincing. I usually ignore conspiracy theories but I’m starting to believe this isn’t just some concocted theory. How many of you believe in this? They say no matter what president you vote for and who wins doesn’t matter that the secret societies make all the decisions. Illuminati, Free Masons, Skulls the Vatican E.T.C.. If McCain had won he would be doing the exact same thing that Obama is doing, they’re just puppets.
They say there will be no more constitutional rights, forced abortions and they will start to eliminate 5 billion people by war and disease because there is only enough resources left in the world to support 1 billion people and those people will be chosen by the government. They believe if they don’t eliminate at least 5 billion people the human race won’t survive
They say all the presidents know of the up coming New World Order and those who don’t go along with it will be Assassinated. They say JFK was against Socialism and globalization so he was going to blow the wistle so he was killed by our government.
They say the United Nations is proof and they are sending in peace keepers in other countries that are most likely to resist and they cover it up by saying they need to be their to keep the peace and order but all along their getting ready for war and don’t even know it. The U.N. wants to occupy every country and get ready to start eliminating in the way of Hitler and these societies say Hitler was a Genius. This time they’re not going to target a specific race of people but everybody in general. It’s the powerful against the middle and lower class.
Before WW2 people heard rumors, they thought it was just a conspiracy. The ones that believed left before it happened, the ones that thought it just a rumor stayed home and ignored it and out of nowhere they found their towns occupied by the Germans with no where to run and they where about to go through living hell.
I don’t know if it’s true some predict March 25th 2012 the U.S. government will announce this. Sounds crazy but the more you look into it the more you will be convinced. Trust me this ain’t no Alien abduction, or man on the moon conspiracy this is so much deeper. Here is one article of thousands I found easy to understand
http://www.biblebelievers.org.au/nv2.htm
The media portrays the militia and these anti government compounds located deep in the forest as paranoid terrorist. But some say they have knowledge of the up coming and preparing for war against the government most are ex military
So please tell me what do you think?
Are their groups that are forming to fight this, if so where?
i am shocked, what will we all do?
barry | Feb 03, 2010
If this were true, there’s nothing "we" can do about it, now think about this,does it sound logical something this big could be kept quite for any length of time.We will all go when it is our time, just be ready for it NOW, amen
seasea | Feb 03, 2010
I read the book "Pawns in the Game" by William Carr. It described what you are saying with a story line. There have always been conspiracies and plots within and without government. The closest we have become to a socialist state is now and I agree with you. The only problem is the nature of man. No conspiracy can last hundreds of years. The biggest problem we face is the progressive movement under the banner of liberalism. We have one chance to change the course of this movement, November 2011. The one world liberals and their counterparts in the Republican party need to be replaced with conservative constitutionalists. America is worth swallowing your pride and voting across party lines for the true patriot.
sitnfish | Feb 03, 2010
Dark Reprieve
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 Dark Reprieve (2008)
IMDB rating: 6.00
Plot: Two people Matt and Kate wake up in a closed down prison. They have no idea how they got there, or why they are there. In the prison they encounter several terrors as they look for an exit. These terrors include a wolf beast that terrorizes Kate, a hideous monster that hunts them both, a “zombie” surgeon who operates on people whilst you’re still alive, the executioner who gives Kate a ride in his electric chair and finally executes her with the guillotine. But Kate just wakes up again in the prison and the nightmare continues. Also in the prison Matt and Kate encounter a strange number that pops up a regular basis, first the number is being printed over and over again on a printer gone crazy, next the number appears painted on a wall in blood. Kate finds a room containing a vacuum tube machine for sending messages between rooms, when she pushes the operation button it comes alive and a cylinder appears. Inside the cylinder are the pictures of five people, Kate has no idea who these five people are. Later in the movie Matt and Kate explore the basement in the search for an exit and discover five pairs of shoes all neatly arranged on a shelf. As Matt and Kate endure these horrors, the beautiful fashion model Raquel Lake is being interrogated by the police about a series of homicides. Raquel is arrogant and diabolical, she also has a very high IQ and proves more than a match for the professional police interrogator. Strangely many of the subjects in the police interview correlate with the events transpiring in the prison. For instance, Raquel is shown a series of pictures of five dead people, and when Raquel is informed by the detective that they are “looking for a cold blooded predator.” Raquel’s response is….”like the wolf?” What is the connection between the two people trapped in the prison and the interrogation of Raquel Lake?
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I'm writing a young adult (ages 16-19 approx) novel dealing with Lesbian/bi issues and would love opinions…?
Being 19 and bi myself, I’ve discovered there isn’t much out there by way of Lesbian/bi teen lit that actually has the heroine(s) end up together without having to be shelved in the romance sections. As I love to write, I am writing one myself. This is simply the prologue, and I would love opinions. IF YOU ARE AGAINST THE LGBT COMMUNITY, PLEASE DO NOT RESPOND NEGATIVELY. I would especially appreciate comments from members of the LGBT community ages 13-21, as that is the broad age range this is aimed at.
Prologue
Chris stared at the image on her computer screen. She had always been drawn to this particular picture and couldn
My Cousin Vinny
March 19, 2010, 3:36 am
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 My Cousin Vinny (1992)
IMDB rating: 7.20
Plot: While heading for college, Bill and Stan are arrested in Alabama when circumstances point to them as having murdered a convenience store clerk. Unable to afford an attorney, they turn to Bill’s cousin Vinny, a brash New Yorker who took six tries to pass his bar exam. Worse, until now he’s only taken personal injury cases, none of which have gone to trial. Dragging along his even more abrasive fiancee Mona Lisa Vito, Vinny will have to straighten up fast, and keep out of jail himself, if he’s going to win the case.
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In what town, state does the trial in "My Cousin Vinny" take place (Alabama or Georgia)?
The movie was filmed almost completely in Georgia, but the movie is actually set in a fictional town called Wahzoo City, Alabama.
| Nov 07, 2009
I’m pretty sure it was Alabama, because they caught the guy who really did the murder in Georgia. Don’t know the town though, sorry.
LilyRT | Nov 07, 2009
driving through the fictional Beechum County, Alabama, on their way to visit UCLA, New Yorkers Billy Gambini (Macchio) and his friend Stan Rothenstein (Mitchell Whitfield) they get arrested… funny movie
In the August 2008 edition of the American Bar Association Journal, My Cousin Vinny was rated #3 in their cover story listing of "The 25 Greatest Legal Movies", after To Kill a Mockingbird and 12 Angry Men.
Robin spi | Nov 07, 2009
Indiana Jones and the Kingdom of the Crystal Skull
March 18, 2010, 4:19 pm
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 Indiana Jones and the Kingdom of the Crystal Skull (2008)
IMDB rating: 8.10
Plot: During the Cold War, Soviet agents watch Professor Henry Jones when a young man brings him a coded message from an aged, demented colleague, Henry Oxley. Led by the brilliant Irina Spalko, the Soviets tail Jones and the young man, Mutt, to Peru. With Oxley’s code, they find a legendary skull made of a single piece of quartz. If Jones can deliver the skull to its rightful place, all may be well; but if Irina takes it to its origin, she’ll gain powers that could endanger the West. Aging professor and young buck join forces with a woman from Jones’s past to face the dangers of the jungle, Russia, and the supernatural.
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what are the lengths / duration of the following movies?
if you knw the duration of any of them then plz tell
twilight
transformers revenge of the fallen
death note(movie 1)
batman the dark knight
rush hour 3
jennifer’s body
the one
indiana jones and the kingdom of crystal skull
twilight - 121 min
transformers revenge of the fallen - 150 minutes
death note(movie 1) - 125 minutes
batman the dark knight - 152 minutes
rush hour 3 - 91 min
jennifer’s body - 102 minutes
the one - 95 minutes
indiana jones and the kingdom of crystal skull - 122 minutes
Super Chick | Nov 26, 2009
twilight = 122 min
transformers = 150 min
death note = ?
batman = 152 min
rush hour 3 = 91 min
jennifer’s body = 102 min
the one = 87 min
indiana jones = 122 min
EasyDee | Nov 26, 2009
go to imdb.com and search for it
hawk | Nov 26, 2009
Imagine That
March 18, 2010, 3:43 pm
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IMDB rating: 4.30
Plot: A financial executive who can’t stop his career downspiral is invited into his daughter’s imaginary world, where solutions to his problems await.
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Looking for the song titled "Lord"?
I heard it on the Christian radio station, and it was sang by a man. When the song was over, they said it was titled "Lord", but I didn’t get the artist’s name. The chorus repeats "You are Lord, you are Lord…."
I tried searching the internet, but you can imagine how many hits pull up…
Anyone knowing this song, it would be a big help!
I can make up a song called lord really quick for you.
Lord:
Oh, Lordy, I am like a fairly tale…
I find myself on a riverboat sail…
If I shall quake, I will look to….
Cinderella for the rue….
Patriotic American | Feb 05, 2010
Newsboys have a really good song called "Lord". Could that be it?
no | Feb 05, 2010
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WmZPve3Fm qE
This one is better
thrash | Feb 05, 2010
Hmm, that narrows it down to about ten million mindlessly ignorant faith-based songs sung by white men with guitars. Maybe if there was a "come baby Jesus" thrown in there I could have whittled it down a bit more, but unfortunately Lord, You are Lord, You are Lord" is a bit vague, not to mention annoying.
You’re probably better off not knowing, because I would consider it risky to piss of an omnipotent being with such repetitive lyrics as are found in most worship music. If someone ever sang the following song to me, I’d lighting bolt their face off:
Zack
You are Zack
You are Zack
Zack
Yeah, lighting.
Zack | Feb 05, 2010
Curly Sue
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IMDB rating: 4.70
Plot: Bill Dancer and his young companion Curly Sue are the classic homeless folks with hearts of gold. Their scams are aimed not at turning a profit, but at getting enough to eat. When they scam the rich and beautiful Grey Ellison into believing she backed her Mercedes into Bill, they’re only hoping for a free meal. But Grey is touched, and over the objections of her snotty fiance, insist on putting the two up for the night. As they get to know each other, Bill becomes convinced that this is where Curly Sue belongs - in a home, cared for by someone that can give her the advantages that his homeless, nomadic existence lacks. He plans to leave the young girl in the care of Grey and take off…. but Curly Sue has other ideas!
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curly sue hair extensions 10points?
has anyone used them
like the ones that are not human hair but you can use curlers and stuff on
i have fairly thick hair.
even when straightened
I’ve used them and hated them.
They look absolutely fake, and they’re ability to "curl" is not true.
Plus, they’re all big and bulky so they make your hair look a bajillion times thicker than it actually is.
Although, that is only my personal experience.
xwhxrefacex | Jan 14, 2009
yeah they work great.
haileyy(: | Jan 14, 2009
they are adorable OMG you’ll pick up alot of guys!
catherineathornton | Jan 14, 2009
The Final
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 The Final (2010)
IMDB rating: 5.40
Plot: A suicidal high school outcast plots with his misfit friends to seek vengeance against the popular kids who revel in making their lives a living hell. Taking his cue from the Han Dynasty and a steady diet of sadistic horror films, Dane plans a party his tormentors will never forget. When the targeted teen inherits a secluded lake house from his late uncle, he recruits fellow rejects Jack, Ravi, Andy, and Emily in throwing a party that no bully will walk away from unscarred.
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I need help with a mean father?
Hi,
I am 18 years old and I have two younger siblings, a brother 13 and a sister 16. For the past 4 years or so, my father has been particuarly mean to me and my mother. He never says hello to me, laughs and yells in my face, makes mumbling noises or laughs ("ha ha") whenever he is around me, calls me an ungrateful bitch. He is equally mean to my mother.
But the thing that upsets me is his double standards that he applies to his selective love to his offspring. He tells me he hates me, but tells my brother and sister that he loves them and that they’re such a good boy/girl right infront of me, which then he proceeds to look at me as if he’s saying it on purpose. He sucks right up their asses. He’s paying for my sister to go to America for a holiday for the 2nd time, and taking my brother to Disneyland for his birthday, when he failed to say happy birthday to me, or even a hello on my birthday. He took a ‘family’ holiday earlier this year - first saying that it was boys only (him and brother), but failed to tell my mum that my sister was going too. My mum begged and cried to come on holiday as she thinks my brother is growing up too fast and wants to cherish these precious moments, but he refused. And it wasn’t because of a shortage funds. He didn’t want I or my mother there.
Another thing that hurts me is the way he treats my boyfriend. My boyfriend is handsome, intelligent and a real gentleman when it comes to relationships and women. Yet when he comes to my house, he says hello to my dad and he says nothing back and walks in the opposite direction - when my boyfriend has done nothing wrong. However if my sister or brother invites friends over, he laughs and tells jokes, makes them banana milkshakes and is nice and friendly to them.
It’s so unfair! I have not done anything since year 9, I got excellent grades in my final year of highschool, but there wasn’t a single congratulations or well done from him regarding my efforts.
I don’t know what to do. I want to move out but have nor the resources or money to move. I confide in my boyfriend sometimes, but there’s not much he can do. My mum knows how he treats me, and they get into fights about it, but my dad is so blind by his actions - he thinks that what he’s doing is completely normal. He won’t pay for food, or the odd textbook I require for Uni, or even a birthday card, yet has all this money for holidays and golf carts. He also afforded to get a copy of my car keys, so he can move it off an on the driveway - he could just ask me to move it? It’s just another way to avoid contact with me.
I am sorry about the length.
P.S. It’s not because I have a boyfriend. My 16 y/o sister had a boyfriend and dad invited him over for a BBQ..?
Mum can’t divorce because she got her hours cut in half at work and all her pay goes on bills
Ok i could be way off but it sounds like maybe your mom cheated on him and you are not his. that could cause the anger tword you and your mom. Unless you did something really bad and your mom backed you.
mac | Mar 17, 2010
This can be considered abusive behavior. Also making a copy of your car keys can be illegal if it was without your permission. Solving this type of problem is tough. It depends on how you want to handle it. You can call the police or department of social services. You can also just suck it up and carry on with your life. Either choice is tough to make and what you want to deal with.
SlickDrago | Mar 17, 2010
Okay well first of all your 18 so you can move out..
But if you cant thats another situation i don’t see your father doing all this without you doing something to piss him off..you need to understand no father is happy about his daughter having a boyfriend i mean am not even a father but if my daughter had a boyfriend i would break his face well you cant forget hes your father he brought you into this world he paid for your food housing school ETC for 18 years so either talk to him about it or suck it up and wait until you can move i mean your 18 if u were 15 or something that would be different suck it up some fathers abuse u got it easy
plaYA101 | Mar 17, 2010
Wow this is a hard hitting state of affairs. I really feel for you having such a bastard of a father. Its obvious he bares a grudge against u and your mother for some reason. I feel for both u and your mother, but why does your mother let it happen? Your mother should find strength to leave this bully of a so called man, coz thats all he is if he can make 2 womens lives miserable. I dont know where u live but in England we have a housing system, so u could leave home and see citizen advice or the housing co and tell them u have had to leave home due to an abusive father. Has your father always been this mean? I cant understand why your mother would want to be with a awful human being!!! U will eventually hit rock bottom which in turn will effect your confidence…this u do not want to happen, so u need to take action now!!! U r 18 so your father had no rights to get a copy of your car keys without your permission. Have u confronted your father why he is a twat to you? Im sorry I cant help you anymore….u need to deal with this as the adult you are and stand your ground, u r a human bein not a piece of shit on the bottom of his shoe. I wish u al the best and hope u and your mother find the strength to stand up to this vile man. All the best.
kellie m | Mar 17, 2010
i’m very sorry to hear this jane,
i kind of know what it feels like.
i didnt read the full length but bits because im in a hurry and i needed to tell you this:
maybe he doesnt like your mother, and he seems your mother in you. so as a reaction he dislikes you.
i dont know the reason why he doesnt like your mother could be anything. men are weird complxed creatures.
love your mother and all the people that love you.
dont let the ones that dont care get in your way.
life is hard as it is. i know all those things hurt you. we have major financial problems but my dad doesnt give us money but gives to other brothers children bcz they have no father. i find that unfair too but somehow i dont think of it.
my mom gets against me very often cause my little sister keeps filling her eears. i still care for her more than anythin but she haardly gives a shit.
i feel so alone sometimes cause when shes angry my moms taking care of her. when im sad no one cares.
my dad openly says he loves the elderest daughter. my mom says she loves the youngest. so im the middle one whose always stuck.
i always take care of them like making no mess and listenin to what they say. but its no use.
confused89 | Mar 17, 2010
Regardless of this man’s reasoning for his obvious difference of treatment regarding you and your mother, this is his home. Regardless as to why your mother continues to stay with him, you are an adult at 18 and are now living on borrowed time and what little graciousness he does have by allowing you to stay in the home.
Don’t look for answers as to why he’s behaving this way or that way. Just stay focused on what you need to do while you must remain in this home. Your mother may not be able to stand ground for you because she may have her own reasons for not wanting to make too much of an issue about it other than a few fights when the treatment gets too unbearable. Just know this, that you are an adult… you must look to be responsible for yourself even though you may be looking for additional parental care while you’re still going to school.
Your boyfriend merely adds additional tension and I would recommend going somewhere other than your home to spend time with him. Seriously start planning and saving for your independent living arrangements as your father’s behavior is apparently only getting to be more progressive. Also there could be more sinister things advancing besides just the hostility you’re interpreting in him. He could advance to the stages of physical abuse of either you, your mother, your boyfriend or even your other siblings. I recommend staying with another person for a few days to ascertain what type of effect your being gone has on him. You may find that you’ll want to try to move sooner than later.
If all else fails, contact a local church or even a counselor at your school and inform someone that this behavior is going on. They might have resources you could try or if nothing else it will serve as a testimony of sorts if things become too far out of control. Whatever you decide to do, try not to dwell on your father’s treatment of you versus the treatment of your siblings. This will only further upset you and it seems that your father apparently receives some twisted pleasure from causing these feelings within you. Do not give him this satisfaction over you. If need be, treat him as a generous host allowing you temporary privilege to stay in his home for the duration of your stay in the home while you’re attending school.
Raevan | Mar 17, 2010